QUICK THOUGHTS: the web and the return of a humanity as a couple.

QUICK THOUGHTS: the web and the return of a humanity as a couple.

The extraordinary perception of the other through the web takes us far. Far from our daily habits, from our constraints, far from our usual words that imprison us in ideas and behaviors that are too repeated. Being distant also means observing ourselves with the right detachment that leads us towards an objectivity of judgment and being more sensitive to ourselves. For example, if a man and a woman do not speak the same language but decide to meet with the help of translators, this throws up their habits, their fears, and the obstacles and prejudices that we usually put towards disappear. any stranger. What happens with more precision? Our being natural, intelligent and adhering to what we really are, takes precedence over habits. We express a primordial, simple, sensory activity that leads to a careful and mutual understanding. This prodigy is possible because the absence of the usual many words prevents our egocentrism from doing serious damage. Selflessness, good-naturedness, understanding of the other, smiling often, conveying that everything is going well, holding hands, accompanying each other while walking, take over in a truly exciting miracle of our times. This is extraordinarily fascinating and to understand the reasons for this, a long preamble is needed on what we "naturally" are. To be examples of life, it is not enough to communicate with words alone, but those who listen to us have two perceptions: that of the meanings of what we say and that of the movements of our body, of our physicality in general. We transmit cultural experiences but above all our intense vibrations. A child who sees us react sprawling to damage does not accept our minimizing in words to be reassured, but reads our immediate reaction. If we express fear of an accidental event, the child will be afraid of that fact and will continue to fear it. In us, in our body, there is a lot of wisdom, it knows it will die, it perceives the world, it feels it, and we must abandon the power of words for the benefit of our physical perception, this is where we understand the limits of language. When we see a loved one who is very sick, we understand the uselessness of words, there is nothing significant to say. When we love, while searching tenaciously for words, we almost never express phrases that give the idea of the power of what happens to us, we never manage to describe something that comes close to reality. Erotic literature always appears very boring to us because it is impossible to describe an authentic and fascinating love gesture. Words become inaccurate, we lose the desire to think, it is our body that instead feels the gravity or the power of a "moment", or an instant that touches us deeply. It has a perception that escapes the language, we perceive something where the words, even if skilfully identified, have no meaning. I remember with great pleasure a film where a little girl who had lost her mother instinctively avoided thinking about it, did not cry but suffered terribly . Her father was close to him with only body language, the only one she understood and comforted. To conclude, I believe that an engaging sentimental solicitation, an unexpected humanity, surprises us as an intense experience never learned by repeating it. These experiences are not mechanisms of the mind that memorize this or that, that replicate this or that, they are experiences that we live by allowing ourselves to be contaminated, which change us profoundly. Every man or woman are masters of life without wanting to, they are taught by example. All this fascinates us because it makes us rediscover wisdom, it leads us to a knowledge that is physical experience and lifestyle. For those who are aware of this humanity, giving a good example, being calm in the face of strong vibrations, makes us whole, free and a reference for those who know us in a world made up of hostile forces that try to enslave everyone. Let's enjoy who we really are.